Day Eighty Two

Days Without a Cigarette: 81.56875
Days Without Nicotine: 24.56875
Dollars Saved: $345.81
Time Saved: 115 hours, 33 minutes

I can’t say for certain that I’ve gone a whole day at this point without thinking about cigarettes, because realizing you’ve gone the whole day without thinking about something forces you to think about that thing. So, by necessity, if I went a whole day without thinking about cigarettes, I wouldn’t have noticed it. I mean, I guess I could keep notes every time I thought about them and look back over the data to discover the note-less days, but to be honest, I’m not that concerned. Even without the proof in hand, I’m pretty confident that by now I’ve gone an entire day without thinking about smoking more than once.

If you’d told me in December that I’d reach that point before the end of February, I couldn’t have believed you. While I fully expected I’d eventually get there, I was thinking it would come on the scale of years, not weeks. I mean, ‘day eighty two’ seems impressive, but I’m still less than three months removed from my last cigarette. And while I can’t say for certain that I’ve gone whole days without thinking about smoking, I can definitely confirm that I’ve gone whole days without craving them.

And I should note that my doubt wasn’t entirely based on paranoia. While I’d never tried to quit smoking before, I had gone long periods without cigarettes a few times… depending on how generously you want to define “long periods”, that is. For a few years I did an annual fast that required giving up cigarettes for five days. I’ve taken multi day hiking trips without enough cigarettes to make me through. I’ve had oral surgeries that require not smoking for several days. And it was these prior experiences that I was building my expectations around – these periods of ceaseless and overwhelming misery. When I’d gone without cigarettes before, I thought about them constantly and craved one every fifteen minutes or so for days on end. It stood to reason that quitting for good would be similar.

In fact, that expectation is built into the advice people give smokers trying to quit. One of the most ubiquitous tips is to take it one day at a time, or even one hour at a time. I heard this over and over again as I approached my quit date: “Don’t think about next month or next year; don’t get overwhelmed with the thought of never having a cigarette again as long as you live. Just worry about getting through the next hour, and then worry about getting through the hour after that.”

And while I understand the utility of that advice, there’s also something to be said for doing the exact opposite. When I’d given up cigarettes for a few days or a few dozen miles, it was a constant source of misery because some part of my body knew that I was going to eventually get more nicotine. It was like looking at the clock at a bad job. Every minute ticked by so damn slow precisely because I knew that some number of minutes had to expire before I could have another smoke.

This time around, I got to remove that. So when my id started calling for a cigarette, I didn’t say “just make it through this one more hour”, I said, “tough shit, you’re never getting another one of those so get the fuck over it.” The very fact that the next minute or the next hour or the next day offers no reprieve makes this minute less exceptional. It removes one of the sources of frustration.

And, of course, all of this is just a round about way of addressing the decreasing frequency of this blog. It’s not something I’m going to apologize for or work to rectify. Part of thinking about cigarettes less often is thinking about this blog less often. I’m not retiring it or anything, as I’m sure I’ll have more to say on the subject going forward, but being an ex-smoker has already retreated to the back of my consciousness most days, and I’m perfectly happy to leave it there.

Published by Noah Lugeons

Noah Lugeons co-hosts a bunch of podcasts: The Scathing Atheist, God Awful Movies, The Skepticrat, and Citation Needed

5 thoughts on “Day Eighty Two

  1. I’m curious – are you starting to look at the dollar amount and think about what you could spend that on? (Aside from a baby Yoda toy for Lucinda)? I wish I had done what you’re doing, and tallied up all the money I didn’t spend on cigarettes while I was going through the process.

    Once again – congratulations and once again, I want to thank both you and Lucinda for doing this and sticking to it. I love how much better your voices sound. I love knowing that your lungs are going to recover from the abuse you’ve put them through and you’ll have a lower risk of suffering from some types of cancer or emphysema down the road.

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  2. You hit on it, but an example folks may relate to is knowing you have treats, like cake, at home. If you don’t have it, you don’t think about it. If you know delicious cake awaits you, you’re drooling on the commute home thinking about getting home to the cake (or at least I would be).

    I have a psychiatrist friend who worked with addiction for a while. He said his clients were very nervous about the idea of never having access to the alcohol/drugs again. To calm them down he would say not to stress thinking about the future–just do your best, and if it doesn’t work out, you can always go back to being an addict. It was an odd thing to hear, but I understand it. A person can put a lot of pressure and stress in the mix thinking “I can never have this again!!!”

    Finally, time makes a huge difference. The farther away you get, like you said, the less you think about it. That’s the nature of most everything in life.

    Glad your doing well.

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  3. That is such fantastic news! Hopefully you are starting to feel healthier, as well. You’ve been kind to share your experience with us, I hope your listeners who still smoke tobacco have been listening/reading and getting some valuable tips. The blogging gives a great perspective on making positive change in life. And woo-free, to boot.

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  4. How is Lucinda doing? Are her cravings, thoughts, or worries similar to yours? I hope you both get through and keep up the success!

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